It’s universally acknowledged that motherhood is a role filled with admiration, respect, and emotional depth. Society often celebrates mothers as the cornerstone of a child’s upbringing—and rightly so. But in this celebration, we sometimes overlook another pillar of strength, love, and guidance: fatherhood.
Today, I want to shine a light on the often-underappreciated role of fathers, and more personally, express my gratitude to the man who has been my partner in parenting—my husband, Avi. His presence in our son Shivansh’s life is not just supportive—it’s transformative.
Beyond Breadwinning: The Modern Father’s Role
Traditionally, fathers have been seen as providers—the ones who ensure the family’s financial stability. While that role remains important, today’s fathers are so much more. They are nurturers, teachers, playmates, protectors, and emotional anchors. They are equally invested in the day-to-day joys and challenges of raising a child.
Avi embodies this modern fatherhood beautifully. He’s not just “helping out”—he’s fully involved. From changing diapers to teaching Shivansh how to kick a soccer ball, he’s there, every step of the way. And yet, I realize we don’t always say “thank you” enough. This blog is my way of doing just that.
A Bond Like No Other
One of the most heartwarming sights in our home is watching Shivansh light up when Avi walks into the room. Their bond is pure magic. Whether it’s their evening walks, playful wrestling matches, or quiet story time, their connection is deep and genuine.
When Avi steps out for a short while, Shivansh immediately starts looking for him. His little eyes scan the room, his tiny feet shuffle toward the door, and his voice calls out for his father. It’s a reminder that a father’s presence is not just comforting—it’s essential.
Quarantine: A Time of Togetherness
The pandemic brought many challenges, but it also gave us a rare gift: time. During quarantine, we spent more uninterrupted hours together than ever before. It was during this period that I truly saw the depth of Avi’s involvement as a father.
He didn’t just “watch” Shivansh, he engaged with him. He taught him how to pray, introduced him to cricket and soccer, and even turned tidying up into a fun game. He created nicknames, managed the remote control battles, and became the go-to person for emotional comfort.
As we prepare for a return to normalcy and Avi’s eventual return to office life, I can’t help but feel a little anxious. The thought of managing everything alone, even for a few hours a day, is daunting. His presence has become such an integral part of our daily rhythm.
Complementing Each Other
Parenting is a partnership, and I’m grateful every day that I don’t have to do it alone. While I focus on Shivansh’s nutrition, sleep, and daily routines, Avi brings in a different kind of nurturing—one that’s equally important.
He teaches Shivansh how to express himself, how to be curious, how to laugh at life’s little mishaps. He’s the one who introduces new games, encourages exploration, and builds emotional resilience. Where I might be strict, he brings softness. Where I might worry, he brings calm.
Together, we balance each other out. And that balance is what makes our parenting journey so fulfilling.
A Note of Gratitude
Avi, if you’re reading this, I want you to know how deeply I appreciate everything you do—not just for Shivansh, but for our family as a whole. You are:
- A teacher, guiding our son with patience and wisdom.
- A protector, always ensuring we feel safe and secure.
- A playmate, bringing joy and laughter into our home.
- A partner, sharing the load and lifting me up when I need it most.
- A hero, not because you wear a cape, but because you show up—every single day.
You may not always hear it, but your efforts are seen, felt, and cherished. You are the backbone of our little world, and we are so lucky to have you.
Why Fatherhood Deserves More Recognition
While single mothers are undoubtedly real-life superheroes, and their strength is unmatched, co-parenting brings a different dynamic. It allows for shared responsibilities, emotional support, and a more balanced upbringing for the child.
Fathers like Avi deserve more recognition—not just on Father’s Day, but every day. Their contributions go beyond financial support. They shape values, build confidence, and create memories that last a lifetime.
It’s time we celebrate fatherhood with the same enthusiasm and reverence we give to motherhood. Because when both parents are equally involved, children thrive in ways that are truly remarkable.
A Family Built on Love and Teamwork
Our family isn’t perfect—we have our messy days, our disagreements, and our moments of chaos. But what holds us together is love, respect, and teamwork. We’re learning as we go, growing together, and building a home filled with laughter, learning, and lots of hugs.
Shivansh may not understand all of this yet, but one day he will. One day, he’ll look back and realize how lucky he was to have a father who was present, involved, and deeply loving.
And when that day comes, I hope he carries forward the same values, the same dedication, and the same heart that his father shows every day.
Fatherhood is not a supporting role—it’s a leading one. And fathers like Avi are proving that every single day. They are shaping the next generation with their love, their presence, and their unwavering commitment.
So here’s to the dads who show up. The ones who play, teach, comfort, and guide. The ones who make parenting a true partnership. And most of all, the ones who love without limits.
“To the world, you may be just a father. But to your child, you are the world.”
Thank you, Avi, for being our world. 💙
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