There are few experiences in life that can be described as both the toughest job on the planet and the happiest phase of life. For us, that experience is parenthood. We are now the extremely proud parents of our 10-month-old son, Shivansh, and every day with him feels like a new chapter in a story we never knew we needed.
Becoming a parent is, without a doubt, the biggest leap in one’s life. It’s a transformation that reshapes your identity, your priorities, and your understanding of love. And for us, it came after nearly a decade of living a carefree, bachelorette-style life.
Life Before Parenthood: A Beautiful Freedom
We got married in 2010, and for the next nine years, we lived a life that was full of freedom, spontaneity, and joy. It was a time of late-night drives, impromptu dinner dates, weekend parties, and endless cups of coffee shared over silly conversations. We chased career goals, argued over the smallest things, and made up just as quickly. Life was simple, smooth, and easy.
We had our routines , dinners together at the same table every night, long conversations about dreams and travel plans, and the luxury of time to do whatever we pleased. It was a beautiful phase, and we cherished every bit of it.
The Shift in 2018: A New Chapter Begins
Then came 2018, and with it, a shift so profound that we’re still catching our breath. The arrival of Shivansh changed everything. Suddenly, we were no longer just a couple—we were parents. And while the transition was overwhelming, it was also deeply fulfilling.
There are still moments when I look at my son and think, “Am I really a mother now?” It feels surreal. The same hands that once held coffee mugs and steering wheels now hold bottles and baby wipes. The same heart that once beat for personal ambitions now beats for a tiny human who has become our entire world.
Life After Shivansh: Chaos, Love, and Meaning
Life after Shivansh is a whirlwind – beautiful, chaotic, and incredibly meaningful. Yes, it’s hectic. Yes, it’s exhausting. But it’s also the most rewarding experience we’ve ever had.
Before, I had time to waste on trivial things. Now, every minute counts. I’ve learned to prioritize, to plan, and to be present. Time has become my most valuable currency not in a literal sense, but in how I choose to spend it. Every decision is now made with purpose, with Shivansh at the center of it all.
Our goals have shifted from short-term pleasures to long-term plans. We think about the future more seriously. We save more, spend wisely, and eat healthier. Coffee dates have been replaced by playtime, and our once silly arguments have turned into discussions about diapers, nap schedules, and solid foods.
A New Kind of Love
One of the most beautiful changes has been in our relationship. We no longer need to plan romantic dinners or weekend getaways to feel close. There’s a quiet, unspoken understanding between us now. We’ve become more caring, more intuitive. We can read each other’s minds without saying a word.
Parenthood has deepened our bond in ways we never imagined. It’s no longer about proving our love, it’s about living it, every single day, through the small acts of care and support that keep us going.
The 24/7 Job That Pays in Smiles
I’ve temporarily stepped away from my 8-hour day job, but I’ve taken on a new role one that runs 24/7. Motherhood is the most demanding job I’ve ever had, but it’s also the most fulfilling. My salary now comes in the form of dangerously cute smiles, tight hugs, loud cries, and slobbery kisses. And honestly, I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.
It’s not always perfect. There are sleepless nights, messy days, and moments of doubt. But there’s also laughter, discovery, and a kind of joy that can’t be put into words. Our life isn’t ideal but it’s real, and it’s ours.
The Fleeting Nature of Time
One of the most bittersweet realizations of parenthood is how quickly time passes. Shivansh is growing every day, and we know that this phase this magical, messy, beautiful phasen won’t last forever.
There will come a day when he won’t reach out for hugs as often, when he’ll be too busy with school, friends, and eventually, his own life. We’ll always be his parents, but we won’t always be his whole world.
That’s why we try to soak in every moment. We wake up early just to watch him sleep. I sometimes hide just to see him look for me with those innocent eyes. These little things – these fleeting, precious moments are what make our hearts full.
A Message to My Son
To my dearest Shivansh,
Kiss me a little more, cuddle me a little more, laugh with me a little more until I’m not far away, a little more.
You are our world, and while we may only be yours for a while, we will love you for a lifetime.
Final Thoughts: The Toughest Job, The Greatest Joy
Parenthood is not easy. It tests your patience, your strength, and your limits. But it also expands your heart in ways you never thought possible. It teaches you to love unconditionally, to give selflessly, and to find joy in the smallest things.
Becoming a parent is the toughest job on the planet—but it’s also the happiest phase of life. And we are so incredibly proud and grateful to be living it.
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